How To Maintain Passion In A Relationship 5-Step Solution to Sexless Marriage

How To Maintain Passion In A Relationship 5-Step Solution to Sexless Marriage

 If you've been in a relationship beforeyou've probably noticed that with time the spark and sizzleof a passionate connection reduces, sometimes even disappears completely.So what to do to keep the desire, passion and flame alive? And is it evenpossible? Keep watching because I'm going toexplain all of that. Hello, YouTube family! My name is HelenaNista and I am a sex therapist and a Tantra practitioner.I make videos about great sex, legendary pleasure,about Tantra and passionate relationships. So if you're interested inthese topics, make sure to watch my other videos and subscribe to my channel.And also hit that bell icon to be notified as soon as I post.And now let's talk about maintaining erotic passionand desire in relationships. I have lost count a long time ago of howmany times I heard from my clients the phrase:"we don't have sex anymore".

 A lot of couples come to me with some version ofthis story. "We haven't had sex in many, many months"or "We only have sex once every few months" or "My partnernever initiates and I have stopped trying too".So what's the problem? Why do we crave sex and have so much of it at thebeginning but then start to struggle with itfurther down the road? And is it possible to have afrequent, intimate and orgasmic sex life in a long-term relationship?Well, the answer is "Yes!" It's absolutely possible, however, itcomes at a price. Let me explain. Most people assume thata hot sex life is a natural consequence of aloving relationship. But that's not correct. If that were true,there would be a lot less sexless marriages out there.The story I hear most often is:

"we love each other very much!... and we don't have sex anymore". The real issue is that we stop trying.We de-prioritize our sex life and we let it stagnate.One of the big reasons behind this problem is that very notion thata passionate sex life should spontaneously follow from aromantic love. The truth is that sexual passionis a result of a conscious decision. Long years of anintimate and erotic connection is something that we create.It's extremely rare to have that kind of bond in your relationshipnaturally, most of us have to work for it. And there arefive different things we should be paying a particular attention to.Take care of your emotional connection. There is a very strong link between howyou relate emotionally and how you relate sexually.

When the emotional connection suffers,so will the sex. Any resentment, upset, a sense of betrayal, loss of trust, etc.will need to be faced, addressed and processed properly.And for some couples that might mean working with a qualifiedrelationship therapist. So make sure to use them because that'swhat the therapists are trained to do. Stop defining yourself as a half of awhole.Stop spending every possible second with your sweetheart.Make sure to fully develop your identity as a whole and fullhuman being outside of your relationship.What are your passions? Your hobbies? What do you enjoy doingwithout your partner?...

Make sure to focus on thatas well as focusing on your relationship. Becausecloseness increases love but kills passion.Whereas separateness grows your desire for each other.Having only spontaneous sex is a myth. A lot of people resist the idea ofscheduling sex. But remember when you first met and youwere having a lot of hot fun together. What did you do back then?You scheduled sex! You planned it, you arranged dates, youlooked forward to it, you prepared for it and you wanted tomake it special. There was nothing spontaneous about it.It was planned and it was probably very satisfying.So start taking each other on dates. Take turnsand put one person in charge of everything. The partner in charge isgoing to plan and prepare everything as a gift to their lover. And next timeyou're going to swap.

 I teach a lot of my clients differenttantric practices and rituals. Tantric practices are an incrediblybeautiful way to grow the intimacy, connectionand sensuality in your relationship. Tantra also teaches men and womenhow to have much better sex, how to make sex lastmuch longer, how to resensitize your entire systemfor expanded full-body energetic orgasms, how to be multi-orgasmic, how to entertrance-like states of bliss and orgasmic merging together in bed. So ifyou are finding that your sex life is lacking somethingor that simply you'd love to take your bedroom connection to a whole new level,make sure to check out my Tantric Sex for Couples online course!

 I will link itdown below in the description. Because Tantra is the moststraightforward path towards better sex, stronger orgasms anddeeper pleasure. Your sex life doesn't need to be aserious matter. Have fun with it! Take a trip to the local sex shop oreBay online and look for toys, outfits andaccessories that you find exciting. Share your sexual fantasies with eachother and discuss which ones of them you would like to play out. You mightwant to dance and strip for each other. Maybe have a pillow fight, play nakedpoker, give each other an erotic massage,

havesex outdoors or play a doctor and naughty nurse. This is YOURsex life and nobody gets to decide what it looks likebut the two of you. I hope that this helps and answerssome questions for you. If you enjoyed this video please give it a 'Like'.This is obviously just the tip of the iceberg of the topic of sexualpassion and desire in relationships and I'll be making more videos on it soon.Please also comment below and let me know which ones of my tips you're goingto try. I always respond personally to all ofthe comments and I can't wait to read yours.Thank you so much for watching and see you in my next video! 
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